I’m so frustrated! How can people give such a stupid excuse?
After holding so many birthday parties, I came to realize the selfishness that certain of my group members have. When it comes to their birthday, it’s all about having everyone and having a jolly good time but when it comes to others… it’s none of my business attitude. Have you been to a party where everyone is your ‘friend’ yet some are your enemies? Well, I have! And the best part is, everyone is from my group (give me 5 ‘irony’) why does everyone lives behind an ugly mask? Sigh. Such a life I have to go through, it is no wonder my doctor says I’m under stress! Some takes birthdays as an opportunity to make money. “This world what people also have” (canto). That’s what my dearest mother always says to me. You want an example? Sure, I’ll give it to you… a half kilo cake from a normal cake house… how much could it have cost? Through my experience, it would come up to about RM30 but ‘he’ (generally) collected RM2 from 20 of us. Add another ‘ringgit’ makes it a Whole kilo Secret Recipe cake. I can never forget that incident, plus no one appointed ‘him’ to buy it in the first place. What a rip off!
Yesterday was another classmate’s birthday, Kristine =) such a nice person. I bought a small token for her and asked a few people to chip in. Here’s an answer… “Sorry, I’m really broke”. It really irritates me when I think about it. I was asking for RM3. Is that too much to spend on a friend? What in the world are you eating 4 meals a day plus junk food? Just skip junk food for a day! Is that too much to sacrifice for a friend? And another one, turning up on a birthday party but not paying. What? You think the drinks are ‘longkang water’? This really pisses me off! Another one was up in ‘his’ room even though ‘he’ promised to be there. What were you doing? Studying for finals? Does a day affect your grades that much? Are grades so important that you can live without friends?
Such rage I have right now. Thankfully this year is finishing soon. Then it’s ‘bye bye’ mr/mrs self-centered, selfish, and inconsiderate!
To love without condition, to talk without intention, to give without reason, and to care without expectation....is the heart of a true friend. I think some people should really ponder about this. Love works both ways and we’re all people with feelings. Now, take time… sit back and evaluate yourself. Don’t end up being mention like the people above. Take care and stay happy =)
After holding so many birthday parties, I came to realize the selfishness that certain of my group members have. When it comes to their birthday, it’s all about having everyone and having a jolly good time but when it comes to others… it’s none of my business attitude. Have you been to a party where everyone is your ‘friend’ yet some are your enemies? Well, I have! And the best part is, everyone is from my group (give me 5 ‘irony’) why does everyone lives behind an ugly mask? Sigh. Such a life I have to go through, it is no wonder my doctor says I’m under stress! Some takes birthdays as an opportunity to make money. “This world what people also have” (canto). That’s what my dearest mother always says to me. You want an example? Sure, I’ll give it to you… a half kilo cake from a normal cake house… how much could it have cost? Through my experience, it would come up to about RM30 but ‘he’ (generally) collected RM2 from 20 of us. Add another ‘ringgit’ makes it a Whole kilo Secret Recipe cake. I can never forget that incident, plus no one appointed ‘him’ to buy it in the first place. What a rip off!
Yesterday was another classmate’s birthday, Kristine =) such a nice person. I bought a small token for her and asked a few people to chip in. Here’s an answer… “Sorry, I’m really broke”. It really irritates me when I think about it. I was asking for RM3. Is that too much to spend on a friend? What in the world are you eating 4 meals a day plus junk food? Just skip junk food for a day! Is that too much to sacrifice for a friend? And another one, turning up on a birthday party but not paying. What? You think the drinks are ‘longkang water’? This really pisses me off! Another one was up in ‘his’ room even though ‘he’ promised to be there. What were you doing? Studying for finals? Does a day affect your grades that much? Are grades so important that you can live without friends?
Such rage I have right now. Thankfully this year is finishing soon. Then it’s ‘bye bye’ mr/mrs self-centered, selfish, and inconsiderate!
To love without condition, to talk without intention, to give without reason, and to care without expectation....is the heart of a true friend. I think some people should really ponder about this. Love works both ways and we’re all people with feelings. Now, take time… sit back and evaluate yourself. Don’t end up being mention like the people above. Take care and stay happy =)
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