Was depressed the day before yesterday..
I was said to be selfish...
I broke my friend's CD case,a Simple Plan CD..
It was one of his favourite out of the 3 he lend me some more..
And that triggered him to tell me his thoughts,in a very direct way..
About another issue which happened 2months ago..
Something about me being selfish and didn't really noticed other people's feelings..
I got sad..Not angry at his frankness,but instead grateful that he chose to tell me..
Japanese is not known for their frankness,and I'm glad he chose to tell me cuz he treated me as a friend..
But still,that doesn't mean it won't make me depressed..
I thought I was OK..
Not perfect but OK..
Until I was reminded I was not so..
I thought of returning to the quiet and closed-up self when I just came to this class,
But thought better of it..
He told me because it was for my own good..
I should learn to change..
and I will...
PS:in the meantime..searching high and low for the new CD to return to him..sigh
歌如人生
5 years ago
6 comments:
i might understand how u might hav feel...
i know my own flaws well,but its different when people point it out to me.But i guess its better for your fren to tell you as it is rather than holding grudge and only explode years later.
the kelly i know is not selfish,though i might not even be as close to u as ur other frens.Everyone is selfish to a certain extent,one just need to find the balance.
dun be too upset over ur fren's comment,maybe its just him.
sometimes we may not know what we do can hurt people.
treasure friends like him.
it's better to tell, than to treat u nicely then gossip about u behind ur back.
right?
btw, i've wrote u a letter about 2 weeks ago. duno where to get stamps here ;p will send it soon!
ps: stay cool, stay you.
which album? Try get for u back here from M'sia?
Change for the better is good. Just dun push urself too hard for it.
nyway, u've been tagged ya. ^^ if u too free, go have a look. =)
Naoki:yea,its different when people point it out directly..Maybe,its because I sort of gotten use to the not-so-frankness of Japanese people that's why I was a little suprised by his frankness.But I think I'm alright..
Vivian:True,at least after he told me,I can change for the better while I'm still here...
Waiting for your letter=)
Chen Li:I've found the CD online d..My first time shopping online and its not for myself some more..ok,will visit your blog when I have the time=P
hi dear, dun take too hard on urself k? sometimes v cant expect ourselves to be perfect, but v can onli try our best to improve ourselves. Yea, every1 is selfish to an extend n sometimes v just dun realize our weakness. Feel ok to accept the comment, as it make u a better person with stronger n stunning character!!! cheers!
Awww, come on, Kelly. Seriously, you're one of the more thoughtful friends I know. And if you were selfish I don't think I would be spending so much time with you having mamaks. but yeah, we're only human, we're not perfect, and it's good to see that you've taken his frankness the right way and want to change, get depressed, whatever, but remember to stand up again to be a better person :)
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