~Happy Valentine's Day~

Happy Valentine's Day to all..

Valentine in Japan is about girls making chocolates,baking cakes and cookies to give to their special person.

It's also the best time for girls to make their confession to the guy they like..

But recently it has been a norm for girls to give girls what they made..

Especially in a case like mine,where half of the class are girls,

You cannot run away from having sweet stuff for the whole week prior to Valentine's day.

I enjoyed receiving it,I also enjoyed giving it.

They say"When in Rome,do what the Romans do"

I use to think that it's unfair that only girls should give something to the guy on Valentine's.

But I realised the fun of it too now.

Confession of love?

Needs a lot of courage and deep thinking.

My tutor made me think,

That when someone confessed to me,

No matter how I dislike the other person..

I should give thoughts to the person's feelings.

His anxiety,his fear of being rejected,and even if rejected..

His fear of whether things would/could be back to normal.

My tutor is really a girl beyond her age..

On another note,

Because my birthday was near Valentine's Day,

I received more chocolates than ever as my birthday gift..

But I treasured each and everyone of them.

And also the 20presents I got.

The more than 40 sms/e-mails I got.

Second time celebrating birthday in Japan,

Yet,it was so much different from my first one.

More unexpected gifts from more unexpected friends.

Which made me realised how nice these Japanese mates are..

And how to some friends,

My birthday is just..another friend's birthday-mah..

Oh well,I had a great birthday,

That is what that counts.