Currently listening to some songs Min Ley sent me..Can't help swaying along with it.Current mood:A bit happy with a mixture of relaxed plus a pinch of energetic.This time exam felt very relax due to the fact I only had 8subjects to sit for.(Last time got about 13)
And the fact that I'm given the chance to go to Tokyo and Osaka for free on this coming Sat,Sun and Monday!!There's a catch lar of course,have to be translator for 5 Chinese teachers coming to Suzuka during this period of time.But still,got to ponteng one day class on Monday=) Hopefully my Mandarin doesn't sound too cacat-ed.With Tang Yii with me,should be ok-gua...
Lotsa thoughts nowadays,but every time when it comes to blogging,I can't help starring at the blank page and don't know where to begin.But mostly some not so happy thoughts.I sometimes wonder why does it that people can be so happy 24-7,and what is wrong with having not-so-happy-thoughts most of the time?
What if this is one of my traits?Does this make me a not so good person?Is having proper etiquette not the so-cool or 'in' thing right now?Sure,speaking up one's opinion is considered the very much sorted traits but does it mean that keeping one thoughts to oneself is not proper?Frankly,I'm neither.I have this habit of being 'neutral' in everything.Always believing that 'neutral' is the right way.
But it also a very boring way of leading a life,I notice.Being at one end of a opinion gives you a chance to debate,or to share with others.True,it might get you into trouble when you are too stubborn with your own opinion but it shows that you gave that topic some serious thinking.Unlike people like me,who opt to listen to all opinions and agree with parts of each,which in the end result in a thoughtless mind.Only having other people's opinions,with the lack of self-thinking sometimes made me wonder..If people were to ask for my opinions,how could I answer,knowing that it might sound so shallow for it is not an opinion of mine,but someone else's?
Ah well..
歌如人生
4 years ago
4 comments:
"Unlike people like me,who opt to listen to all opinions and agree with parts of each"
The fact that you agree with some parts and disagree with the others means that you have formed your own opinions based on facts. It doesn't mean that you're thoughtless.
You might feel like those are not your opinions but they are what you agree/disagree with and that means that you agree with certain people and disagree with the others. And that, is an opinion.
The facts are all the same for any debate. Being neutral is also an opinion if you can justify what you agree or disagree on both sides of the fence.
Having unhappy thoughts is not a trait. A person who never has unhappy thoughts is a person who is 100% fully content with life. Having unhappy thoughts just means you want more out of your current situation. You're not content and you probably feel like something is missing in your life at the moment.
hmm.. perhaps you can blog about the not-so-happy thoughts? then, in a way, you can analyze and dissect it and try to change them into happier thoughts? or just blog to express your unhappiness, let it go and feel better afterwards?
ps: i dun see why having not-so-happy makes a person a not so good person.. =S
Only when you're in the middle that you can see things objectively mah.
I'm sure you're also a very opinionated person lah,just that you rather keep them to yourself?hehe...no matter happy or sad blog,i'll be one of your loyal reader!
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